{"id":41,"date":"2025-12-04T00:31:22","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T00:31:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/?p=41"},"modified":"2025-12-04T00:31:22","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T00:31:22","slug":"the-ethics-of-asking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/?p=41","title":{"rendered":"The Ethics of Asking"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-3a88641f wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The thing that sticks with me the most out of everything that we learned throughout the semester was the Robert Coles quote that said,\u00a0\u201cWe are asking for a kind of forbearance from people who are often considerably more burdened than we are, hence our obligation to think carefully about how we approach such people and how we <em>are <\/em>with them, not to mention how we take leave of them\u201d (Coles, 79). I am the social media manager for my frisbee team, and although it is obviously much lower stakes than what Robert Coles was writing about, I think it is still very important I consider who I am recording and whether me asking them a question will hurt them in any way. I ask the team very light hearted questions, but I have the tendency to just run up to them and tell them to do something or answer a question. I don&#8217;t ask them if they want to answer or not because I have gotten accustomed to doing it my way since I think everyone is comfortable with it. They usually are ok with it but I should start asking. I don&#8217;t have an idea for a media element, so I will use a video I posted for frisbee as the media element. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video height=\"1920\" style=\"aspect-ratio: 1080 \/ 1920;\" width=\"1080\" controls src=\"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Timeline-1-2.mov\"><\/video><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The thing that sticks with me the most out of everything that we learned throughout the semester was the Robert Coles quote that said,\u00a0\u201cWe are asking for a kind of forbearance from people who are often considerably more burdened than we are, hence our obligation to think carefully about how we approach such people and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41\/revisions\/47"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samsalguero.bergbuilds.domains\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}